Falling in love is easy. Loving them is what’s hard. Loving her at times when you really don’t feel like it, is what takes work. Staying with him despite the problems is the real challenge. And any books in the world, magazines and blogs, or YouTube can’t truly help you. You know where to look for the solution? Inside yourself. What really matters is your sincerity. Your pure intentions. Your willingness to make it work, despite the troubles. Your motivation to rise above the storm, and accept them, as who they are and make it work. Perhaps they are not at their best, behaving in irrational ways you can’t understand. Yet by behaving in such a way, emotional and uncomfortable as it may be, they are letting themselves be vulnerable in front of you. She is exposing herself to you. He is opening himself in front of her. Don’t turn away. This is when he needs you the most. This is the time to collect her when she is falling apart. This is where your sincerity comes from. This is the time to give and not worry about the taking. It will come back to you. Always has and always will.
(P.S Please note that this is applicable in normal everyday relationships, doesn’t apply to any verbally or physically abusive relationship. )
Waking up in Jannah 