Every young girl dreams of a perfect man; her knight in shining armour. When she grows up and finally meets the man she wants to be with, she thinks she has found the Mr . Perfect. As the relationship progresses and time passes, she starts to see all the tiny cracks of imperfection in her man. Confused and frustrated, she gets determined to put him back together the way she envisioned. To make him perfect again. To change and make him into the ideal man she has always dreamt about. This is where most relationships lose their way.
But there are few rare ones. I call them the successful ones. This is when she realises that all her life she fell in love with the idea of love. She doesn’t love the man as much as she loves the love itself. This is where the change happens. The work put in isn’t in changing the man anymore to make him who she wants him to be, but all the mental and physical effort is put in understanding and accepting who he really is. Who he was before she met him and who he has become since she has been with him.
She then for the first time in her life, truly and honestly starts to love him. To love his perfect imperfections.
Waking up in Jannah 