Aside

Being nicer hurts less..

Logic makes sense. It also hurts.

If you are making a logical, practical decision, please be gentle explaining it to your loved ones.

Moving to another country because of better job prospects is logical, it will also hurt your parents so be gentle in breaking the news.

Getting married to a guy outside of your culture because he is better in his deen may be logical, but it wont be easy on your family. Be nicer to them.

Working longer hours to provide more for your family is logical, but it will also hurt your wife who will miss you more. Be gentle with her.

Logic makes sense. It also hurts. Being nicer hurts less.